Why Spy Chronicle: Signs of a Cheating Spouse

There are many signs of a cheating husband or wife, and most of them are the same for women and men. Here are some ways to tell if your spouse if having an affair. Note that many of these could also be a sign of something else. Below is just a few of the signs.

• They lose interest in sexual intercourse. You stop having sex, or have sex less often.
• Their sexual behavior or interest changes, e.g. they want to try new positions or ask new questions.
• Sex does not feel intimate anymore. They might actually be feeling guilty about cheating on their lover when they have sex with you.
• Sex does not last as long. They may become tired more easily. Men might ejaculate more quickly, or have trouble getting or keeping an erection. Women might fake an orgasm to get it over with. (This could also be a sign of frequent masturbation, which is not unusual.)
• They act distant. Your intimacy level goes down.
• They won't touch, kiss or hold you as much.
• They don't say "I love you" as often.
• They tell you you are unattractive.
• They sleep on the couch instead of with you. It becomes more like they are your roommate instead of your spouse.